I asked an old friend of mine, who is very wise , about the younger generation and why ,today ,there is so much drug abuse,crime and amorality prevalent among the young. This man, who was at one time a drug addict and dealer and now is a responsible father and teacher, asked if I wanted a one word answer or a 10 minute explanation. I responded that one word would be fine. His answer was-” PARENTS.” He went on to say that ,today, parents want to be liked by their children and will go to any extent to avoid coldness or blame. Hence they would, far more, rather placate a child and give into a child’s wishes rather than do what is right for the child and what will establish good and strong boundaries and moral strength . He went on.”To be a good parent you must be willing to be hated sometimes; though,in time that hatred will change into gratitude. Parents today want instant gratification and many are unwilling ,unprepared or simply ignorant of how to deal with their children – so the kids go elsewhere to get their rules and codes of conduct and often that means the streets”